Libra is the
seventh Sign of the Zodiac. The first six Signs represent
personal development, while the second six represent
man's turning outward to other people. Libra is the first
Sign in this half of the Zodiac, and thus it's the first
Sign of reaching out to others -- they strive to create
balance and harmony between self and other. It represents
marriage and partnership, the most basic ways for people
to come together. As the seventh Sign, Libra also rules
the seventh House: House of Partnership.
The
Astrological Symbol of Libra is the Scales. Like the
scales of Justice, Librans are objective and just. They
abhor unfairness and conflict, striving above all for
peace; but at times they are easily deterred from their
beliefs. Librans are able to see all sides of an
argument, but as their mental scales sway back and forth
they may never find balance and become fickle and
indecisive. Sometimes they are so eager to avoid conflict
that they give in to avoid argument, even when they know
they are right, and this may make them seem insincere.
Diplomatic and cooperative, they are skilled at
initiating group projects. In this way, Libra exemplifies
the Cardinal Quality assigned to it. When Librans set
goals for themselves, they are determined to succeed.
Within the Zodiac, Libra is oppositeAries, the Sign of
Self, so Libras tend to be about other people rather than
personal development. They tend to be socially inclined
and charming, but they may have a need to be liked that
makes them too compliant to others' wishes.
Libra is
ruled by the Planet Venus. In ancient Roman mythology,
Venus (and her Greek equivalent, Aphrodite) was the
Goddess of Love, Beauty, and Pleasure. She represented
joy, happiness, and appreciation of beautiful things. On
the negative side, her appreciation for sweets and luxury
could result in overindulgence, and she could be
materialistic. Venus rules both Libra andTaurus. Libra is
the masculine, or day, aspect of Venus; Taurus is the
feminine, or night. Both Signs have a great appreciation
for beauty, but while Taurus appreciates the beauty of
things, Libra is more interested in the beauty of other
people. Librans are happiest when they're in a
relationship. They are seductive and attractive, and
their cultural awareness and talkative nature make them
help them shine in the social situations they so enjoy.
Because of their social nature, they can be vain or
overly dependent on others' approval. Many people born
under Libra have strong artistic tendencies and a refined
sense of style, but they can also become lazy and
apathetic if bored. They are usually controlled and
rational, but at times they may be self-indulgent.
The Element
associated with Libra is Air. Air Signs are intellectual:
they tend to respond to the world through intellect,
rather than physical action, practicality, or emotion.
Libra's intellectual orientation to the world around them
makes them skilled at communication and abstract
reasoning, and their intelligence combines with their
interest in other people to become an intellectual
exploration of the people around them. Because their
efforts are mentally rather than emotionally motivated,
Librans tend to be very judicial; they are good at
diplomacy and compromise. Because they are generally
reluctant to face confrontation, people born under Libra
learn to be persuasive, courteous, and adaptable. But
this may also make them seem cold and unemotional or
manipulative. They are team workers, skilled at
cooperative action, but they can also be self-doubting.
Open minded and always polite, they have a strong sense
of loyalty because of their ability to put themselves
into other people's shoes.Librans love to debate but not
to quarrel; a fine distinction that is nonetheless very
important to people born under this Sign. They are kind
and considerate, and they rarely display anger. Instead
they may employ subtle means of getting even when their
strong sense of fairness and legality or refined
sensitivities are violated.
Romantic
Profile : Libra, as befits the sign of the Scales,
revers balance and harmony above all. If this can be
achieved with a partner, even better, for Libra rules the
House of Partnerships and revels in things that come in
twos. The Scales are sociable and shine in social
situations, where their gift of communication is an
attraction to many. Librans also want to be liked, even
loved, by those who cross their path, and it can be very
hard to resist the Scales when they are at their most
charming and magnetic selves. It's not unusual for
Librans to possess an easy grace and sense of style and
move languidly throughout a room. Behind that pretty
facade is a smart, often smoldering soul who knows how to
get what they want, and would love nothing more than to
do so fairly and justly. When the Scales find the partner
they've been searching for, it could be a match made in
hot heaven. "Make love, not war" is a phrase
which must have been coined with a Libra in mind. Those
born under this sign love to talk and find agreement with
a partner as opposed to angrier alternatives. Romance for
these folks can often be a sexy tug-of-war, with Libra
letting someone get close but not too close. Courtship
where Libra is concerned is a beautiful affair, as befits
someone ruled by Venus, the Goddess of Love, Beauty and
Pleasure. Hearts and flowers are a must, and Libras
showered with a sea of beautiful things are likely to be
most receptive to amorous entreaties. While Libras can
appear cool, calm, even aloof to a lover, they are
incredibly playful and romantic once they relax. A lover
who plays fair is a must for Libra; if not, subtle
manipulations, despite the Scales' best effort, may
surface.
Relationships:
Where the Scales are concerned, they love looking at all
sides of an issue and can easily "walk a mile in
another man's shoes." This kind of magnanimous
outlook is a boon in relationships and makes those born
under this sign a pleasure to deal with in the give and
take of affairs of the heart. As befits their beautiful
world, Librans love to be loved and lusted after,
although they may initially do so from a safe distance
(at least internally). Talk about teasing! Even so, in a
relationship, Librans can alternate between being the
dependant and dominant partner, based in part on what
their sense of fair play tells them. Above all, the
diplomatic-to-a-fault Libra would rather not argue with
their lover, preferring instead to talk things out in the
hopes of achieving sybaritic harmony. The ideal Libra
soulmate talks a great game and has the confidence (and
dazzling good looks) to deliver the goods.
Love: There
is no doubt that Libras enjoy being in love and the sexy,
shimmery sheen which this blessed state can bring. Love
is a beautiful affair for the Scales, and as one who
admires beauty in themselves and others and seeks
pleasure, it's hard to imagine a better place to be. A
Libran is a stylish conquest and as such, can make the
art of love a sensual state for both partners. Librans
tend to prefer a lover stronger than them, perhaps one
who can teach them about themselves and help make them a
more evolved lover. It's all in keeping with the Scales'
desire to appear fair and do what's best for everyone.
Sexuality:
Sex is often mental for Air signs, and Libra is no
exception. These great communicators are possessed of a
strong intellect, and these mental fireworks often
manifest themselves in the thorough exploration of a
lover. Only the brave need apply! Since the Scales like
to be in balance, though, they are often thinking of what
both partners want. A marked distaste for confrontation
can sometimes be perceived as disinterest on Libra's
part, but it's more often just a deep-down desire to
please. Libras love foreplay and plenty of talk leading
to some hot action. If this is all achieved in the right,
luxurious setting, watch out! Scales which are swathed in
riches are a pleasure to behold. Libra loves the thought
of a gifted and attractive partner, since they feel their
partner is receiving just that. Safe to say that a little
erotica goes a long way with the Scales, since these
folks can be oh-so-playful with their toys.
What
Libra Needs: The partner who can encourage Libra to
be honest, open, trusting and free is on the right track.
The Scales crave someone who can give them feedback and
support, and affirm that they are a treasure to behold.
Wooing them with gifts can be the right stimulant. Some
long talks, along with a lesson in give-and-take, can
also work wonders. Anyone who can bring Libra to an open
state, who can get them to think less and feel more, will
be rewarded with a grateful and passionate lover.
The Libra
lover is a harmonious soul who adores love, beauty and
the romance dance. Anyone who can take this pleasure
principle and make it seductively mental is bound to be
at the top of their list. Blissfully partnered Libras
exude a sex appeal which is off the charts!
Love
Compatibility: Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Libra,
Sagittarius & Aquarius
Libra
Career Profile : If it's the truth you seek, you'll
want to work with a Libra. The Scales will look at all
sides of an issue, then make a careful and deliberate
decision once they're sure it's the right one. The sense
of justice and fair play attached to those born under
this sign is remarkable. Librans enjoy the leader's role
and will work hard to be worthy of the privilege. Librans
crave the exchange of ideas, conversation and chatter,
and if all this takes place in a social situation, even
better. The schmoozer of the Zodiac has arrived! The
Scales, of course, would prefer to be known as a
networker, tasteful appellation that it is. Harmony is
important to Librans, as these charmers enjoy beautiful
surroundings which are pleasing to all; they also
appreciate the concept of "go along to get
along," important to peace and mutual understanding
in business as well as life. The mediator in Libra likes
bringing people together, but the Scales also enjoy
having a partner at their side. People all around are
fun, but one true ally in the trenches is priceless.
Librans are motivated to keep their partnership sailing
smoothly, and it's also likely to be a pretty ride, since
they enjoy being in a beautiful world. If there's one
thing the Scales could use, it's a bit of grit when it
comes time to making tough decisions. That swinging back
and forth can't go on forever! When it comes to crisis
management, however, the Scales can spring to amazing
action, even if it's a place they'd rather not be.
Librans are well suited as diplomats, judges, public
relations consultants, counselors, psychologists (no
Freudian slips here!) and artists.
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